The purpose of this blog is to comfort people in Christian Churches today who are hurting because of spiritual abuse. We go to church to worship our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. We expect to feel love and friendship. Unfortunately in many churches today because of the evil that is in this world worshipers are being emotionally and psychologically hurt. Please remember you are not alone. Other are hurting. Jesus loves you and if you have placed your trust in Him, He will be beside you and comfort you. Hopefully some of the posts in our blog will help you to deal with the hurt and realize that you may be dealing with a Pastor or Church Board that is manipulative and abusive.

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Confront?

OK, you read our last post and said,"Yes, I have a controlling pastor." "I need to show him the error of his ways. I'll meet with him and just have a little chat." NOT SO FAST MY FRIEND. Before you go off to commit spiritual suicide please read the following article. Whether you decide to attack the situation head on or flee for your life this article gives some good points to consider. http://www.truthguard.com/Articles/answering-the-question-should-i-confront-my-pastor-a64.html Image credits: http://news.moviefone.com/2011/01/28/evil-movie-priests/

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Wow. This paragraph sounds just like someone I have run into lately. "Controlling pastors are also usually ready for confrontations with full guns loaded. They see questioning and correction as a challenge to their so-called autonomous authority which they are determined to protect. They typically use fear, manipulation, threats, etc. to try to convince you that you are wrong and they are right. They will probably tell you that they have “heard it all before”. They will likely marginalize you, minimize your concerns and make you feel like a rebel, like an unfaithful dime-a-dozen type member that they have “dealt with before”."